the problem with some girls is that when they like a guy, they won't do anything about it. girls expect that once they like a guy, that guy MUST purse them because that what guys usually do. as if pursuing is an ordinal job exclusively for men. but once that guy chooses a different lady, they would be shattered and tend to self pity, depression, and emotional instability when the chances of having such good catch passed though them.
the problem with some guys is that they easily fall in and fall out with the people they choose to be with. once they have what they wanted, they'll leave and pursue another. in the process, they'll meet several ladies who were able to gather enough courage to admit their affection to them. instead being thankful, they'll grow bigger heads, they'll brag, and in time will conclude that there's nothing wrong with their relationship strategy for there will always somebody left to admire them.
then the third sex comes in. broken women grows strong. very strong. strong enough to play the role that was deprived from them. they'd start comforting females who had same issues. and the feeling of sympathy would start to deceive them slowly until it turns into affection and poof! two less lonely girls in the world comforting each other's misery. they'd start performing the role of the men in a relationship, they start to speak like men. they'd start to make themselves look like men. they'll pursue women like men. for that is what women want. to be pursued. i sometimes admit that lesbians could perform in a relationship better for i believe that they'd understand what women really wanted.
while those males who continuously seek something from different relationships would desire perfection. blaming their selves for unsuccessful commitments. then self-doubt seeps in and insecurities come out as they compare themselves and admire other guys to the point that they'd get attracted to them. despite that their preference is against with the social norms, they still have the same guts as men. they'll pursue everything they want. whatever. whoever. and here's where the conflict starts.
what gay men pursue are also men. and men are born to pursue ant not to be pursued. only few lucky ladies get happy after pursuing the guy they've wanted. the feelings would either be reciprocated or rejected. and the cycle of rejection and metanoia goes on and on. boys fool around. lesbians play their part. girls becomes broken. and gays either becomes a priority or just an option.
bottomline. men are the one who always pursue. but ladies are also allowed to do so. stop fooling around and take care of your ladies. the versatilities of sexual orientation nowadays are so massive that even dogs could already play a part.Labels: current issues, heart, relationship