How To Boost Your Confidence.

so.. here i am again making another post on how to boost your self-esteem. though i'm becoming much more of a hypocrite since i've never applied such advice to myself. most of the time, my confidence is already drained by the moment where i sense that i need some confidence-boost.. but anyways.. here are some of tips to start with..

first. you must accept the fact that you are not the most perfect person in the market. and there are a lot of better catch out there. the trick in here is that you must accept that reality whole heartedly and not becoming bitter or too sorry for yourself. yes. you are not the best catch but it doesn't mean that you'll die feeling the least. the moment where you've accepted that fact is the moment you'll start knowing which part or your identity needs some strengthening.

once you know your weaknesses, you can now work on them. based on my experience, there should be a strong reason in order for somebody to elicit great change. something that could drive you hard and push your will far of it's limits. like what i've said before.. anger is a great driving force. and somehow i was driven by it for some time. but unfortunately, my nature doesn't normally dwell on anger. so in due time.. it subsided. so i suggest that you must find a strong inspiration. like revenge. or love.

set a goal. that after all that you'll be going through, you'll be the person that you've always wanted and meant to be. your goal must be realistic and attainable. don't be too hard on yourself.. expecting a great change after a night of intervention isn't healthy. everything must undergo a due process. strong will and work will lead you to something. trust me.

and most of all.. the most important tip that i could give is that.. never ever loose hope in your self. you must believe that everybody has the ability to make their selves great and empowered with the right will and attitude. stop feeding yourself with negativity and fly above that sea of self-pity. it's time for you to love yourself.