OK. Let's make this one short. You don't need someone to make you feel good about yourself. You have the responsibility, the every right and every power to make yourself look and feel great. Looking for somebody to accept who you are is just an excuse. A lame one, I should say. You're expecting someone to love every piece of yourself yet you can't accept that flat chest, or those flabs. Then you'll burst out with that insecurity and jealousy for someone you know who's better than you. Come on. It's a suicide. You're dragging your partner down and at the same time, wasting each other's time trying to get your weak-founded relationship through the rocks.
Go to the gym. Have a facial. Treat yourself for a shopping spree. You can't go on searching for someone with miserable outlook of life while releasing an aura of depression. Happiness and acceptance must start from with in to attract others outside and not the other way around. Make yourself whole rather than dragging your "broken" self around littering your shits around the society. Having a good sense of self and enough self-confidence would benefit not only your current relationship but your future relationships too.
Remember, once you stop chasing for somebody will be the moment you'll be chased. Love yourself.Labels: life, reactions, relationship